Lets all team up against him so we won't be divided

OK here is how it is 

Some family's are so fucked up that they need to manufacture a bad guy

so everyone will rally around  the flag.

Some families can't function without a bad guy or a boogeyman .

Sometimes it's a grandparent, sometimes it's a brother or a sister, the main point is 

that there is always a selected bad guy.

So now I'm two for two , my mom and my brother never pick up the phone,

 and the cousins I stayed with chose me.

Well when I'm gone or I stop trying to be a part of their lives who will be the next bad guy?

Well my cousins took in a new person,and my mom and my brother are good at manufacturing 

the bad guy It could be my mom's boyfriend it could be any other poor schmuck.

Honestly take a look at yourselves and your family dynamics and see if you fit too.