OK here is how it is
Some family's are so fucked up that they need to manufacture a bad guy
so everyone will rally around the flag.
Some families can't function without a bad guy or a boogeyman .
Sometimes it's a grandparent, sometimes it's a brother or a sister, the main point is
that there is always a selected bad guy.
So now I'm two for two , my mom and my brother never pick up the phone,
and the cousins I stayed with chose me.
Well when I'm gone or I stop trying to be a part of their lives who will be the next bad guy?
Well my cousins took in a new person,and my mom and my brother are good at manufacturing
the bad guy It could be my mom's boyfriend it could be any other poor schmuck.
Honestly take a look at yourselves and your family dynamics and see if you fit too.